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The Daygame Corner with Oliver Turner




Daygame - the final frontier. Imagine being able to approach and to get girls literally everywhere. Girls walking down the street, in shopping malls, at gas stations.. this is literally having the whole world as your playground.

You no longer need to limit yourself to clubs, to search around all week for that one cool party that has more chicks and a better guy-girl ratio, to pay entrance fees and to suck up to people so to get on entrance lists, to worry about who will wing you and so on and on. You can simply go about your everyday life and bam - you just approach the hot girls that are coming your way, everywhere. It gives you a tremendous sense power and a sense of literally having the world at your feet.

For most guys this is totally outside their reality. How many times have you seen a super hot girl just walk towards you on the sidewalk, but couldn't get yourself to approach, or worse yet, couldn't even perceive that approaching and getting that girl is actually a realistic possibility.

But what if you CAN make this happen, on a regular basis and as an integral part of your life. How's that for making your own reality.

Daygame can actually be much easier than 'nightgame', but it does have its unique nuts and bolts. Oliver Turner of Captivate to Connect, also known as Grungey10, has decided to make day game his expertise. He's been getting results for himself and been training students to master the craft for a few years now, and he'll be sharing with us some of his secrets and experience.








Hey guys, this is Oliver Turner.

In the last couple of years, I've had an average of 4-6 new dates per week. I've dated models, artists, college girls, librarians, stewardesses, waitresses, sorority girls, lawyers, yoga teachers, you name it -- I've tried it.

And here's the interesting part - I did it all without going to any bars, clubs, and other typical meat markets out there.

I didn't use any so called "pick up lines", scripts, or gimmicks to get the girl. As a matter of fact, I was just being myself the whole time.

And for some bizarre reason, it also wasn't a huge numbers game for me. I didn't have to meet twelve women just to get one date. Almost every woman I've met, I'm still friends with right now.

If I don't end up dating them, they usually pick out one of their HOT friends just so I can meet them.

And the best part is that... it wasn't a 'game' for me.

It was my life.

Now if you would have told me a few years ago that this is actually possible, I would have laughed in your face and called you a liar. Not too long ago, I was shy, introverted, and terrible with women. But now not only do I have the life that I described, I also teach others how to do it, and I'll be sharing some of my secrets here.





Table of Contents


25 Lessons Learned while Meeting Women During the Day Time

3 Deadly Sins of Day Game

Daygame Tips Video

5 ways to WOW women with your approach

DAYGAME OPENERS

3 Things to Keep in Mind When Meeting Girls in Your Social Circle

Proven Techniques for Making Yourself Rejection-Proof with Women

8 Commandments of Attracting Women With Your Body language

Using The "Gift Shift" Technique To Magnetically Attract Women - NEW!





Feb 15, 2008


25 Lessons Learned while Meeting Women During the Day Time


I was always told, "Don't tell 'em what you did, tell 'em what you learned."

Therefore, here is some of what I've learned while approaching women during the day time:


1. You become unique.

2. It stands out in her eyes when you do it right. She can tell you're for real.

3. Confidence is the key, not boldness.

4. The harder the situation, the more she'll appreciate your 'courage' and effort.

5. Women that are walking fast and look in a hurry are still approachable.

6. The first 30 seconds to 3 minutes are the make or break for the deal.

7. If you act like it's normal, then it becomes normal and it's perceived as normal.

8. "I have a boyfriend" means "If you're a loser you will leave me alone" - many times it's a test.

9. You can pick up a girl in almost any situation.

10. Don't overdress. It looks try-hard.

11. If you're introduced to her you can get away with trying for rapport in the first couple of minutes.

12. You get the line "It was nice meeting you" when you stall out or start to make things uncomfortable.

13. You got to get her to a full stop when she's moving.

14. You got to get her to sit down if she's stationary.

15. You got to get her to walk with you if she's sitting down.

16. Have your logistics planned out.

17. Emotional connection is the HEART of day game.

18. Bitchiness lasts less than a minute if you know what you're doing.

19. Timing is key.

20. It doesn't take more than 15 minutes to get her comfortable enough to go on an instant date with you.

21. If you see a guy walking with the girl, more often than not they are just friends.

22. It's not weird to call her up the same day that you get her number.

23. Lower energy is appropriate most of the time in daygame.

24. You can take it slow if you know you'll see her again.

25. If she's still talking to you... then you're doing good!



What did you learn from going out there to meet women?

Then you should be out there, RIGHT NOW, finding out the answer to my question.


If you want to triple your confidence, become naturally charming, and meet and date more women in a month than most men date in a year, start by getting your free special report on How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days.

Yours, OliverT.




Feb 16, 2008


3 Deadly Sins of Day Game


What I'm about to tell you took me YEARS to figure out. The hardest part of the equation, after discovering it, was to stop my old habits and put the new ones in to action.

When it comes to Day Game, There is something in common with every unsuccessful guy out there. They are guilty of some of the DEADLIEST sins of day game.



Bad Timing

Timing is very important when trying to meet women during the day. I know there's this rule wherein you have to approach a girl within 3 second of seeing her. I agree with this, but just not all the time. There are situations where you should wait a little longer and strike at the opportune moment. Doing this greatly increases your chances of successfully meeting her.

Here are some pointers:

    - Quickly analyze the situation

    - Ask yourself: can I talk to her for 5-15 minutes without getting interrupted?

    - Attack when you think you should


Here are some of the times when you should NOT approach her:

    - She's ordering food

    - She's already near the cashier

    - She's counting something

    - She's with a customer

    - and a whole lot more

You have a better chance of succeeding when fewer interruptions occur. It's possible to succeed even if there are tons of interruptions, but it takes a lot of effort and patience. Both do work, I'm just giving you the path of least resistance.

There's a gray area too.

If she's walking down the street, she could be in a hurry, but not necessarily. Instead of thinking about approaching her, just go. It's better to just start walking towards her.



Ignorance to Social Energy

The energy you bring in to the interaction is one of the factors that determine how successful you become when it comes to Day Game.

There are 2 things you should keep in mind before you approach any girl.

    - What's the over-all energy of the environment you are in

    - What kind of energy is she projecting


If you're in a bar or club, you can get away with super high energy, touching her right off the bat, and laying it on thick.

You will come across as weird every time you don't match the energy of the interaction and the person. These must all be taken in consideration when before you start talking to that one girl.

If you're in a library then tone it down

If you're in a small lecture room then turn it down

If you're in a busy "Fast Paced" street then turn it up

In other words, you just want to match the energy of the environment. It's like manually looking for a radio station. In order to get the clearest signal, you should be in tune with the right station. If you're over or below the desired radio frequency, even by just a little bit, then it won't be clear.

The same goes for social interactions. You must be in tune with the energy of the environment and the person you're talking to.



Overdressing

Social pressure is something we feel every time the spotlight is on us. Have you ever been on stage before? How did it feel the very first time you were on stage? Maybe it was a contest, a speech, a presentation, or a play. Remember the feeling you had in the situation somewhere you had to talk or present something in front of a group of people. That feeling you felt is social pressure.

So imagine you're all dressed up. You put some nice clothes on, unique shoes, and you stand out. Of course you draw attention to yourself. You might be used to this pressure but most girls are not.

In order get good with girls, you have to understand how they operate. That includes the things they think about, their concerns, values, and so on. I've been fortunate to grow up with 4 little sisters. In the process, I had no choice but to unconsciously be aware of their thought process and mannerisms. The reasons why they do what they do.

The moment you make her feel UNCOMFORTABLE, she'll try her best to alleviate that feeling. That means: getting rid of you. So, if you draw attention to yourself, and you approach her, this might make her feel uncomfortable with the unexpected gush of emotions and attention she gets and that only means one thing.

It only gets harder for you to continue that interaction.


Are you guilty of the things I mentioned above?

Make it a goal to improve on one of your weak points per week.


If you want to triple your confidence, become naturally charming, and meet and date more women in a month than most men date in a year, start by getting your free special report on How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days.

Yours, OliverT.




Feb 18, 2008


Video from a seminar


Here is a recording from a recent seminar I lectured in, with a few more daygame tips:






If you want to triple your confidence, become naturally charming, and meet and date more women in a month than most men date in a year, start by getting your free special report on How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days.

Yours, OliverT.




Feb 23, 2008


5 ways to WOW women with your approach


Have you ever had the feeling that you're really having the awesome vibe going on with a woman, but when you try to escalate things (get her number, schedule a date, or get her back to your place) she says no?

Well you're not alone. I was stuck in that same rut a couple of years ago. It can be frustrating. Sometimes you ask yourself why you keep screwing up the close.

The good news is that it can be fixed most of the time, if you follow these simple steps:


Don't be creepy:

Simple yet overlooked factor. Don't put up a front and start being the "Pickup Guy" or even worse, "The Desperate Stalker". It just won't work. Just relax, take a deep breath, and act normal. That's the secret. Act normal. Picking up girls is less fancy than it really seems. First step is learning how to be social. Second is to be comfortable with being social. Third is being normal. Fourth is never forgetting the third rule!
Here's a tip: Ask a few female friends the things that make her uncomfortable when she's talking to a guy. Then make sure not to do those things.


Create the "Our world" vibe:

You want to get her from "we just met" to "I feel like I've known this guy" as fast as you can. Once you get to this point, you can easily get to know her and vice versa. The faster you can create the "Our world" vibe, the better off you are in the long run. I've discovered simple techniques you can use right from the beginning, in order to create this kind of environment: Introducing yourself right off the bat, talking about your childhood memories, and going on an instant date.


Respect her personal space:

She needs to be comfortable at all times. Meeting women during the day time is totally different if you were to meet them in bars and clubs. There are several things that you need to adjust and one of them is personal space. You got to respect her personal space. Don't sit too close to her too soon, it's uncomfortable. Heck I feel uncomfortable when people do that to me.


Gear it down when it comes to touching her:

When you're in bars and clubs, you can escalate things sexually almost right away. When you're outside of bars and clubs there's a huge trust factor that you need to take in consideration. They don't know you. You're a stranger they met on the street, so just be very casual with the touching. You should touch her just enough so to communicate that you're a touchy feely person.


Always lead:

You got to be leading the interaction at all times. You always have to be pushing the interaction forward. Pickup is like playing a video game: You have to go from stage to stage. You don't want to be stuck in stage 1 forever. It's very similar to sales - the only way to get the sale is to ask for it. Just go for the close (whether it's getting her number, getting her on a date on the spot, or going for the kiss) in all your interactions.

It really makes a big difference.


If you want to triple your confidence, become naturally charming, and meet and date more women in a month than most men date in a year, start by getting your free special report on How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days.

Yours, OliverT.




Mar 5, 2008


DAYGAME OPENERS


Before I share with you my favorite openers there's something you need to know.


ALL SETS WILL OPEN.


Any opener will work for you if you are coming from the right place.


These openers will work almost every time assuming that you have a strong frame, good eye contact, good voice tonality, and a relaxed & powerful body language.


If you're nervous, you'll make her nervous.
And if she's nervous, and you're relaxed, then sooner or later, she'll calm down and relax as well.


So without further ado.. MY ALL TIME FAVORITE OPENERS


YOU SEEM _________ OPENER

This opener works with everybody. It's very natural and effective. First of all you need to observe the current mood of the person you're talking to (relaxed, happy, sad, joyful, excited, calm, bored, and so on) - and mention it to her.


Example:

The girl is sitting down and staring off into space.

You: Hey... You seem relaxed (pause for 3 seconds)... What's going on?


Remember that the opener is just supposed to open the set. Its purpose is just to get your foot in the door. Do not expect the girl to be all over you thanks to an opener. You have to convey your personality first before she becomes interested in you. It's just the first step.


COMPLIMENT OPENER
This opener works well if you do it the right way. That means:

- Don't say it as if you're expecting something in return.

- Don't say it as if it's such a big deal to you. Don't say it in a timid or in an apologetic manner.

- It should come from a place of higher value. You're not saying it to impress her, you're just saying what's on your mind.


Example:

A girl walks in wearing a cool outfit, earring, shoes, or whatever.

You: Hey... That's a really interesting outfit, Did you pick it out by yourself?

Girl: Yeah I had to look all over the place to find it. Thanks for the compliment.

You: That's cool, I like a girl that knows how to carry herself well. It shows a lot of personal creativity. Good job, that's two out of ten on my checklist :)


DIRECT OPENER

In my opinion, this is the best opener to use during the daytime.

There are many subtleties here that I can't really explain in this short text. And that's what makes this opener work so well. Most of it is non verbal.

So ask a friend to observe you while you approach a girl and tell him / her to give you feedback on how you came across from a distance.

This will help you see the things you're doing right and what you need improvement on.


Example:

Girl is sitting down at the foodcourt.

You: Hey... I just noticed you as I passed by... You seem interesting. I just came over to say Hi and see what you're about... (pause)... I'm X.

You can do this standing up, or, say "Hey", sit down, relax, and deliver your opener.


That's it for now. This should keep you busy for awhile! Go and try these openers out. Don't just read about them.


If you want to triple your confidence, become naturally charming, and meet and date more women in a month than most men date in a year, start by getting your free special report on How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days.

Yours, OliverT.




Mar 22, 2008


3 Things to Keep in Mind When Meeting Girls in Your Social Circle


What's the easiest way, known to man, to "meet" girls?

The Social Circle.

This is the way it's always been. Most guys get laid through their social circle. Most women meet men through their friends. This is society's "acceptable" way of meeting people. It's so easy and yet guys still don't know how to successfully pull it off.

Did you know that you can assume rapport right from the start?

When you meet someone through a friend it's socially permissible to start off with "small talk".

But you shouldn't get stuck at that. In pick up, everything you do has a purpose. Examples of this would be:

  - Getting her number - So you can keep in touch with her

  - Building an emotional connection - Creates a bond between the both of you

  - Going out on a date - Allows both of you to get to know each other

  - The small talk - Opens up the conversation (in social circle settings) and helps build comfort


Did you know that in a social circle, you can "finish it" later? This is because chances are, that you will see her again. You can get away with just leaving her wanting more.

I came across this concept by accident, a couple of years ago. There was this attractive girl in my class which I left hanging by a thread. For weeks I would just enjoy myself in class. Chat with her and with everyone else on breaks. Exchange stories and just focus on the task at hand. Don't get me wrong, she was definitely the type of girl that would cause guys to stutter, but I was already satisfied with the girl I was dating.

I gave her fun and positive emotions and I didn't ask for anything in return. That was just the kind of person I was. Eventually she started hitting on me.

I ignored it.

Until the time when she showed up in my apartment complex drunk, told me she wanted to "meet" my roommates, and ended up wanting to "check out my room". I knew the whole deal. The "accidental" falling down on me because she couldn't walk straight. The occasional hand grabbing and all that physical touching.

To make a long story short, I ended up driving her back to the party she was supposed to be in. She appreciated what I did for her the next day. She even called me and said: "The girl you're with must be really special". To that I replied with: "You're damn right".

Remember, if you're going to see her again, you can just keep building up the tension and intrigue up to the point where she pursues you. Or, you can strike when the iron is hot. Either way you win.


Did you know that you can take advantage of the situation with minimal cockblocks?

If there's one thing I've noticed, whenever you meet a woman within your social circle and you play your cards right, more often than not, her friends will set both of you up.

Sometimes, they will set you up even if she has a boyfriend. My guess would be that it's a boyfriend they disapprove of.

Sometimes there's the occasional party pooper that will ruin it for you. In that case all you have to do is address the situation using lines such as: 'What are you trying to do? Seriously? Come on, your friend and I are just having fun. We're just shooting the shit you know. We're just chilling. This whole "I'm going to protect my friend from this guy I barely know" mentality is not cool. But if you're just going to keep acting like this then I'm just going to leave now.'

This works. Feel free to improvise on top of that, but I'm sure you get the point.

And about bitchy women: Most women that act "bitchy" aren't really bitchy. Sometimes, all you have to do is communicate that you won't take their shit. You'll be surprised with the results you get.


Let me ask you this…

Did you know that picking up girls in your social circle is easier than cold approaches?


Let me suggest this…

What the hell are you waiting for? Get your ass out there and go meet some girls, right there in your social surroundings.


If you want to triple your confidence, become naturally charming, and meet and date more women in a month than most men date in a year, start by getting your free special report on How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days.

Yours, OliverT.




Jul 18, 2008


Proven Techniques for Making Yourself Rejection-Proof with Women


Have you ever had any of these happen to you?

  - You walk up to a woman and she ignores you and acts like she's not interested.

  - You were talking to a woman and she brings up the fact that she has a boyfriend and she's not interested.

  - You walk up to a woman and she acts all aloof and cooler than you.

If you said YES to any of these questions, then you'll be armed with a rejection-proof armor by the time you finish reading this article.


When you approach women, one of three things will happen:

First Scenario: She loves it. She smiles. She becomes extremely flattered. She wants to get to know you.

Second Scenario: She kind of likes it. She's not really enthusiastic about it. She's just being polite and sticks around for a bit to see what you have to say.

Third Scenario: She gives you an objection, tries to walk away, or doesn't give you the time of day. Most men crumble and walk away with their tails between their legs whenever they face the third scenario.

I just laugh it all off.

This might surprise you..

I absolutely love the third scenario because it's a lot easier for me. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I triggered some deep level attraction within her (more about this in future articles).

Here's a brief explanation that might boggle your mind.

Women test men for strength and leadership at all times.

If you pass the test, then she'll feel attraction for you and spend time with you. On the other hand, if you fail it and just walk away, then your chance to get with her goes down the drain.

It's that simple.

In the past, I've had women react negatively to my approach.

But here's a dirty little secret.

If you know how to handle a "Test" that women throw your way, then you'll be creating massive amounts of attraction out of thin air.

Here's some word-for-word responses to common tests women throw your way:


THE BOYFRIEND OBJECTION

Scenario 1

Guy: Starts conversation

Girl: I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend

Guy: Awesome, So what do you like to do for fun?

* In this situation, I'm not even acknowledging her objection. I've discovered that Indifference is by far the most powerful way to overcome this objection.


Scenario 2

Guy: Starts conversation

Girl: "I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend"

Guy: "Yes.. and I love sushi, it's my favorite food."

* I agree with her and quickly change the subject. This usually does the trick. I don't know why it works, it just does. Maybe because I'm randomly bringing up stuff just like she does. Hmmm.. possibly.


SHE WALKS AWAY WHILE YOU'RE TALKING TO HER

Guy: Talk, Talk, Talk

Girl: Talks and walks away

Guy: (smiles) "Oh come on now; you're way too classy to be walking away when someone is talking to you. But if I'm making you uncomfortable in anyway, then just walk away. Go on now."

Girl: "Sorry, I didn't mean to be rude.."

Guy: "It's cool. Anyways, what do you do for fun?"

* As you can see, I set up an expectation for her. I tell her she's way too classy to walk away, and of course she wants to be perceived as classy so she will stay for a bit. I also tell her to walk away which is reverse psychology and then I act like it never happened by asking her a question, which re-engages her back in the conversation.


SHE'S RUDE OR IGNORES YOU

Guy: Talk, Talk, Talk

Girl: Says something rude like "Why are you talking to me", doesn't look at you, or something to that effect.

Guy: "Why are you acting like this? I don't know where you're from but where I'm from, people are real. If you're not going to be real, I'm just going to walk away."

I act as if I'm about to leave.

Then I add: "I know this is not who you really are. This is just a protection shield. I understand. Come on, look around you. There are a lot of creepy guys out there that try to get something from you all the time. I'm not one of those guys so don't treat me like one of them. I know you might be a cool person deep down inside. So let's give this a shot one more time, I'm Oliver."

Girl: "I'm Michelle. Sorry I was being rude; I was just having a bad day."

Guy: "No worries. So what do you do for fun?"

* See how I called her out on how she was behaving? It demonstrates that I am a man who demands respect in an interaction.


If you use just one of these techniques, then you don't have to worry about getting rejected by women.

Let me ask ya this..

What did you do the last time you saw a woman you wanted to meet?

Let me suggest this..

Next time you go out and come across a woman that 'tests' you, then use one of these proven techniques to 'pass' and you'll be glad you did.


OK, I have a question. Want more killer techniques like this one?

What if I told you that there was a place you could go and download an eBook that contained literally DOZENS and DOZENS of word-for-word techniques for meeting And dating women?

Well, there is. Of course, it's my eBook "Daytime Pick-Up Revealed". Inside, you'll learn about all of my personal favorite techniques for dealing with all kinds of situations with women.

This program contains all of my winning techniques for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting emails and phone numbers, setting up dates, and getting physical with women - in one easy-to-learn, step by step system.


It's here... you can download it and be reading it in a few minutes.

Don't let your dating life pass you by!

Make it count,

Oliver Turner




Aug 18, 2008


8 Commandments of Attracting Women with Your Body language


Hey guys,

Today I'm going to talk about something wildly important.

If you can master this one skill, then your interactions with women will flow a lot smoother. If you don't, then you'll find yourself having a hard time keeping a woman's interest.

I'm talking about BODY LANGUAGE here.

Contrary to popular belief, body language is the single most powerful method of communicating with people. That's why they say "Action speaks louder than words".

...And if you don't have the proper body language when communicating with women, then there's no line or technique in the world that will work for you or save your ass.

On the other hand, when you're able to master your body and the different ways you can communicate with it, then you'll find yourself attracting women even before you open your mouth.

It's that powerful.

So without further ado, here are the 8 commandments of attracting women with your body language:


1. Thou shall not shake or move a lot in the presence of an attractive woman.

Men tend to easily get intimidated with women that are way above their league. It's really funny to watch. It usually goes like this:

Man sees attractive woman. Man starts to smile nervously. Man starts to make unnecessary movement because of the extra energy he feels. Man gets very jittery. When woman gets close, man tends to change his behavior.
If you're nervous all throughout the interaction, chances are she'll be nervous too, and that's not good.


2. Thou shall not have thy hands inside the front pockets.

Never have your hand inside your front pockets when you're talking with women unless it's below freezing and you don't have any gloves. It gives away the fact that you're nervous, and that's not good.


3. Thou shall not stand or sit too close OR too far from her.

If you stay to close to her, right off the bat, then she will feel very uncomfortable. If you're too far, then it won't feel like it's a conversation. I've had success with starting off at about 3-5 feet away, and slowly get closer at specific points of the interaction.

Try mixing it up. At high and fun points take a step closer or move your chair closer. At low points step away a little bit. Experiment with it.


4. Thou shall relax and Lean back.

I've discovered that when you assume a relaxed position, even if you're nervous, you slowly start to feel more relaxed. Next time you're in an interaction, just lean back and try to be as relaxed and comfortable as you can.

That includes doing things like leaning back, taking up some space, and leaning against the wall. Do whatever helps you relax. For example, when I'm calling up a girl for the first time, I used to lay down flat on the floor and take deep breaths. For some reason, it helped me relax more.


5. Thou shall not stand up like a soldier.

Have you ever been guilty of standing up too straight while you're talking to a woman? Similar to how you would stand and act if you're talking to an authority figure? Most guys take interactions with women too seriously. They stand up so erect that it's almost too funny to watch. Their shoulders become tense and they act all stiff to the point that they make themselves nervous. If you're guilty of this, relax.

Women are human beings too. They're not some sort of super human goddesses from outer space you know? They do the same things you do. They just exert more effort and time into looking good.


6. Thou shall keep thy composure at all times.

Have you ever been in a situation gone bad? You probably didn't notice at that time but everything about you changed. Your voice tone probably changed. The way you stood up probably changed. Everything changed. I used to be that way every time I thought I got rejected by women.

I'd stutter, become jittery, and eventually make a shameful exit. The exact same thing I did every time I experienced a mild confrontation. It showed people that you were emotionally affected by it. Not good. I've learned that if you keep your composure and act as if nothing happened then you end up maintaining control of the situation.


7. Thou shall mirror her body language.

Mirroring her body language is a technique used to increase rapport and comfort levels. If she crosses her arms then cross your arms. If she starts to face you then face her. If she leans closer then do the same. It also works the other way around. If she starts facing away then do the same too.

I'm sure you get the point. But don't make your movements too accurate and robotic as if you're deliberately repeating her. Make it subtle.


8. Thou shall walk and move slow.

I modeled this behavior after guys that were NATURALS when it came to dealing with women.

Everything what they did was almost too smooth. They walked, talked, and moved slow. They took their time almost like they owned time.

And the more I started acting that way, the more positive responses I got from women.


Let me ask ya this...

Do you already follow at least 3 of the commandments that I mentioned above?

Let me suggest this...

Next time that you're out interacting with women, try this:

Lean back...

Feet spread apart...

Don't be too stiff...

Don't tense your shoulders up...

Hands out of the pockets...

Slow and confident movements...

Be comfortable...

Be comfortable...

Be comfortable...

Relax...

Relax...

Relax...

Take a deep breath....

Inhale... Exhale...

Slowly smile and talk to her....

Got it?

Good.


Now if you enjoyed this article, then I have good news for you.

I'm just barely scratching the surface. This is just the tip of the iceberg you're seeing.

I spent over 4 years going out in the real world like a mad scientist, testing, and experimenting with hundreds of different techniques and strategies to meet and date women.

After working on it for a LOOOONG time, I finally "cracked the code".

And I really want you to learn all the things it's taken me so long to figure out. But you're the one who has to do it.

So if you haven't gone and downloaded my online eBook, then you need to do that now. It contains literally dozens and dozens of great tips, concepts, and techniques that you can use RIGHT NOW to improve your success with women.

Go download it right now.

Don't let your dating life pass you by!

Make it count,

Oliver Turner




Oct 23, 2008


Using The "Gift Shift" Technique To Magnetically Attract Women


Hey guys,

When it comes to attracting women, it all starts in your head.

If you think that women will reject you and shoot you down, then they will.. Usually in a heartbeat.

On the other hand, If think like a naturally attractive man, then women will pick up on this and smell it from a mile away.

When this happens, women suddenly feel a jolt of attraction towards you and they won't know why.

It's one of those weird mysterious things in life that you just can't explain.

In order for this approach to work, you must tame the beast inside of you that's craving for her phone number and a date. If you approach a woman with the "I just want to get into your pants" mentality, then it will not work for you.

You will get rejected by women left and right. Then you will begin to wonder what you're doing wrong. When you experience that situation, I want you to remember this section and read it over and over again.

The way you think and feel affects the way you interact with women.

Have you ever talked to someone before and felt like they just wanted something from you? Was it a gut feeling? How often were you right? I bet you were pretty accurate at it.

In order for this approach to work you need to switch the way you see things. You need to learn what I call the "Gift Shift" technique.

It's simple.

You are a GIFT.

Yes you are. Your job is to provide women with positive emotions. Your job is to give them an unforgettable experience. Your job is to take them on an emotional journey with you, away from the world they're in right now.

I know, I know, it sounds pretty corny but it's amazingly effective.

Whenever I talk to people, I feel happy. I feel happy knowing that I'm about to make this person's day. I get results because I have something positive to offer.

I've worked on myself to the point where I just am.

I just am naturally attractive and interesting to women.

You can do it too. How would you act if you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that if only women knew you, they would fall head over heels for you?

Ask yourself that question over and over again.

Am I conveying who I am in an interesting way?

Is she getting to know me or am I just talking out of my ass?

Let me ask ya this...

What do you normally think about before you approach a woman?

Let me suggest this...

Next time before you go out to meet women, I want you to do this.

Take 5 minutes and imagine that you're someone she's been waiting for, all her life. She's been dreaming about you. She's read about you in books. She's seen you in movies. You're the guy she talks about with her best friends.

Here's the catch: She will only find out that it's you after she's gotten to know you.

That means you have to stay in there and really make an effort to get to know her and keep the conversation going.

Remember, you are a gift; you're giving that gift to her. You have more to offer and not the other way around.

This one little change in perspective your perspective will seriously turbo charge your dating life and make women gravitate towards you.

There's a lot of things that most men do that turn women off and drive them away. The worst part is that they are not aware of it until they wake up one day wondering why women lose attraction for them fast.

Fortunately, this is *really easy* to fix. It's all laid out for you in easy, step-by-step dating tips in my course, "Daytime Pick-Up Revealed: What Every Man Should Know About Meeting Women In Normal Everyday Places".

This program contains all of my winning techniques for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting emails and phone numbers, setting up dates, and "getting physical with women...in one easy-to-learn, step by step system.

You can get the details, plus listen to some samples of the program:

Daytime Pick-Up Revealed: What Every Man Should Know About Meeting Women In Normal Everyday Places

Don't let your dating life pass you by!

Make it count,

Oliver Turner




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Oliver Turner is the author of Daytime Pick-Up Revealed - The Every Man's Guide to Meeting Women in Everyday Locations. Oliver has helped men from all walks of life to meet more women, get more dates, get girlfriends, and have the ultimate power and choice when it comes to their love life.

If you want to triple your confidence, become naturally charming, and meet and date more women in a month than most men date in a year, start by getting your free special report on How to Meet More Women in Just 21 Days.


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